Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Being True to Ourselves vs. Being Good

There are times when being true to ourselves is more important than being good. Sometimes, even if we’re offended, hurt, and angry, we choose to ‘stay nice’ because we think that is the right thing to do – to be good, even if it’s killing us inside and all we really want to do at the moment is to be all bratty and throw things and yell. I realize that by doing that, by trying to stay nice and good every time we’re offended or hurt or angry, we might be preserving the peace outside, but we are wreaking havoc inside – we’re destroying ourselves little by little and denying ourselves the right to these negative feelings.

So pardon me if I get angry and act all bratty when offended or hurt. I need to let my feelings out (even if they create some chaos outside) so that I can have my peace inside.

Friday, December 13, 2013

3 Lessons From the Captain

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Before I had a chance to watch The Dead Poets' Society, I thought it was just some random movie about characters from ancient times, relieving ages past and this world's former glory. But, what I found is a truly meaningful movie that has touched me deeply, made me cry, and made me rethink about teaching (I'm a non-practicing teacher, by the way).

The movie tells of the experiences of Mr. John Keating (so called 'Oh Captain, My Captain' among his students), an English Literature teacher at the Welton Academy who did not only teach his students literature but also taught them to live their life to the fullest. The movie is filled with lessons that will surely inspire teachers, and I have listed three of them here.

1. Carpe diem. That was the first lesson he taught his students: to seize the day and make their lives extraordinary. To live fully, to live extremely and with passion, to 'sound [their] barbaric yawps over the rooftops of the world.'

I think that 'carpe diem' actually involves a couple of steps. First, it requires discernment... In order to let one understand what seizing the day means for him personally, to bring light to that which his heart conceals. Then, only then can he realize whatever it is he must seize, whatever it is that his heart longs for, whatever it is that will lead his life to its purpose. Second, it requires courage - courage to follow through on whatever he finds. Because finding it without doing anything to fulfill it is torture.

For a teacher of students who are yet on their path to finding whatever it is they want to be in life, the significance of this lesson can never be stressed enough. We must not only let our students learn their Algebra or Physics or grammar, but we must also allow them to discover their passion. And when they do, we must give them room to explore it, exploit it, breathe its essence into their very soul - until they feel the fire in their life, until they feel they are truly alive.


2. The important lessons are not in the book. The Captain was teaching literature. However, instead of asking his students to study the poems and examine them, as had been advised in their textbook, he helped them appreciate it. He went as far as asked each of the students to rip out the introduction in the book, which supposedly provided guidelines on 'measuring' a poem. With this he did not agree, and thus he asked each student to rip out the pages. In his teachings, there were also several chapters in the book that he skipped. And, he conducted his lessons not only inside the classroom but also outside - in the courtyard, in the hallways, even in the football field as they played sport while reciting verses.

In teaching his students to appreciate poetry, he let the words flow from their tongue, into their ears and through their whole being. He turned poems into food for the soul, something to savor and taste and feel - words that are not only confined inside the classroom but words that actually live amongst his students, fueling the fire that inspired them to live their life passionately.

It has always been a challenge for teachers to bring their lessons from within the pages of a textbook and into actual experiences that students can truly appreciate. It's easier to stick to what is already there, written, ready for students to digest. But, as Mr. Keating has demonstrated, real teaching involves encouraging students to think for themselves. And in accordance with this, he encouraged his students to widen their minds by trying to see things from a different perspective (even if that means climbing a desk) and learn new lessons outside the classroom - a good example for today's teachers.


3. Find your own voice. The Captain demonstrated this in a simple exercise that he let his students perform outside the classroom - he asked three students to walk around together. While they started walking at their own pace and style, soon they were walking together following a single rhythm, with their classmates clapping with the beat. With this he explained how it was easy for people to follow and conform, but that it has its dangers. He then proceeds to encourage everyone to walk together but at their own pace, with their own stance and posture, the way they want to walk without considering how others are doing it. It was this idea, the idea of encouraging students to find their own voice and not to simply conform to the standards, which brings Mr. Keating in conflict with the administration, which believes that the curriculum, whatever has already been set in place, should not be questioned.

I guess this is the general atmosphere in today's academic institutions, many of which are trying to create a controlled environment that will facilitate learning. I know that this kind of system works, but I guess the problem has something to do with how much space we give our students when it comes to the development of independent thinking, how much leeway we offer for making mistakes, and how much encouragement we reserve for those who dare to be different.


John Keating: I always thought the idea of education was to learn to think for yourself.
Nolan: At
these boys' age? Not on your life!


Nolan could have a point there. He could be right believing that the boys may not yet know what's right for them and what's not, but we cannot deny these boys the right to their own dreams, the right to finding their passion. And yes, they might find something unexpected, out of the plan, scary even, during their search within themselves - one student, Neil, for instance, found his love for acting, which was on a world totally opposite the dream that his parents had for him, which was to be a doctor. And who's to say who's right - the parents or the child? Was that dream the real dream, the one worth pursuing? Or was it a passing fancy that would end as soon as it came? Whatever that is, I guess we just have to trust the child to find his heart's desire, maybe not now, maybe not so soon, but we must trust that he will. By following his own path. By listening to his heart's own voice. By braving the world out there.

More quotable quotes from the movie HERE.

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Eight Gadgets You Should Have in Your Bag: On Commercialism and Materialism

1. Tablet
2. Smartphone
3. GPS
4. Digital Camera
5. MP3 Player
6. Pedometer
7. Portable Alarm
8. Hard Disk

(Complete post is HERE.)

Okay, let me start by saying that I am not against gadgets and I don't intend to be righteous in any way in this post. But, I just have to say that I felt a bit incredulous reading the list of gadgets enumerated in the article. Really, do we need all these in our daily work or schedule?

I know for one that if I get a good smartphone, I won't need the following:

a. Tablet - unless I do a lot of reading and I find the screen of the smartphone too small.
b. Digital camera - unless I am an avid photographer, in which case I'll just get a DSLR. For ordinary picture-taking, however, smartphones produce photos that are just as good in quality compared to those produced by many digital cameras.
c. MP3 player - with sufficient memory in a smartphone, I can have enough space to accommodate all my music.

There are even apps that can incorporate GPS and pedometer in phones, so there's really no need to get these separate devices (unless I travel a lot - for the GPS - and unless I'm a serious fitness enthusiast - for the pedometer).

Portable alarm? Sure, I can have that. And hard disk, yes, I'll definitely need that.

I understand some of the gadgets enumerated in the article are a must, but most of them are simply impractical. I guess the point I'm making here has something to do with what the article wants to imply in its introduction when it said: "You’re constantly on the go, hard working, and confident. Which is why you will need the right gadgets to help make modern life less complicated and more functional for you! Here are eight important gadgets we think all new age girls (that’s you!) should have."

This is not the first time I encounter posts that equate the life of modern women (note: new age girls) and their confidence to gadgets and possessions. I believe the post is too materialistic. Please stop promoting the idea that worth = possession (because that is what this article is doing, even without blatantly showing it). And please be realistic. You say "... you will need the right gadgets to help make modern life less complicated and more functional..."

But really, won't all of those gadgets in your bag actually make your life complicated instead of simplifying it? Just my two cents here.